Many times I wonder what has the internet done for us. Has it made our society a better place to live? I don't see that, does anybody here? Can anybody explain how the internet has actually made society a better place in terms of "The quality of life". Has our lives improved as the internet itself has expanded and become such an integral part of it? It's become such an important piece consuming countless hours of our time, yet has the quality of life improved with this new institution we are now so dependent on?

 What has it done for us, or to us maybe. For me it opened up doors otherwise closed because I chose to use it as a tool and much less for entertainment. I have learned so many things about so many subjects. I use it to shop for items that are impossible to find locally. And yes that includes eBay. The area I live in is designed for a certain lifestyle and you really do need a PC here. But I am talking about taking a step back and looking at the big picture.

For instance take many of the issues we have faced over the last 10 years. The wars, the presidential elections, global warming, terrorism, international politics, scientific breakthroughs, the list is endless. Yet as a people have we moved a step closer to being an enlightened group? A people who understands and is much more knowledgeable about the universe we live in? I don't see it......

I wonder are we as a people just as easily fooled, easily lead in the wrong direction by misinformation and deceit as we were 50 years ago. To me the answer is yes, we as a people are the same group who believe in things because we choose to, not because there is any proof or scientific evidence. I don't see this giant leap of intellect that the internet can give a person if they choose to use it to educate themselves. What are all these people doing for so many hours online? It's certainly not investigating and researching, looking for the truth about the world we live in and learning about subjects that were closed to the average person just a few years ago. Instead of a tool people seem to see it more as a source of entertainment and it has become an addiction. For instance how easy it is to look up the medication your doctor just gave you, years ago that was impossible, yet so mnay people do not bother.

 For me a PC is not much more than a hammer or a screwdriver, it's a tool in my personal toolbox. Yet with all this information at the tip of everybody's fingers I read over and over again about people being misinformed, unknowing about simple issues and completely ignorant of the world around them. 50 years ago there were reasons, it was time consuming and expensive to read periodicals and buy books. Not everybody had the time in their lives to do that, we worked hard and our lives were simple, so in turn we were simple. We still work hard but our lives are no longer simple, in fact they are very complex now, is this partly to do with the internet? But now you have the power of knowledge to be gotten through the internet. Knowledge is power yet too many choose not to acquire this power, they would rather play a video game or chat about nonsense with an online friend. I do both but not at the expense of gaining this knowledge available to me.

How many people do not take the time to use google for instance to verify something they heard or read. Just look it up, try to get the facts, take a minute or two. No they would rather believe some stupid email someone sent them or some idiot on TV saying things that are totally incorrect and outright fabrications.

So I wonder, has the internet made people more lazy and stupid? Or has there been no change at all. I guess dumb is dumb and in the famous words of my main man Forrest Gump, "Stupid is as stupid does".

I sat here looking at the miss beautiful wonderful and sexy Chelle and wondered why exactly do I really like women with big boobs. It's not a fetish at all for me in that the woman has to have gigantic ones filled with silicon...or not. It's not about how big they are as though it was an Olympic sport or Guinness world record contest. To me it was something about the way they look. When I look at a woman who has those round mounds on her chest something inside me releases some type of chemical reaction. I find myself being sexually aroused to the point of having weak knees, although rarely it has happened, to my surprise. They don't have to be huge, even the average sized ones just showing some cleavage and protrudence from her chest is enough to set me off.

I have meet many men who feel the same way about a woman's derriere, commonly know as her BUTT!!!!, but for me it has always been the breast. As I grew older I also found myself appreciating the butt and even the what was the rage during world war two, the gams or legs. During that time all they could show legally was a woman's legs so I guess that was it. Long shapely legs were a huge turn-on and they still are. As the United States loosened up sexually more and more naked women became available for us to view in pictures, magazines and movies. I was never interested in those big bushy bushes some men were and still are. In fact I prefer it shaved and even those days a trimmed or a woman with less hair down there was much more appealing to me, this is before the shave was all the rage and the trim was in. Even before what was in vogue I made up my mind sub consciously that I like certain aspects of a woman's body and the she looks, it was not about any trends or even how attractive or beautiful she was, it was about her look........voluptuous.

But I ask myself what is it about a woman's breast that just does it for me. Let's use Chelle as an example of a really nice big pair of beautiful breasts. They surely are, very proportioned and her nipples/areola are the right size and in the right place for her size. She even has symmetry in that one is not bigger than the other as far as I can tell. A lot of women do have an issue and some even need surgery to make them of similar size. I also like smaller ones with their pointy nipples and puffy areola. Or the huge long sloped ones caped with a pointed nipple we see more often on the slim and stacked models, you all know what I am talking about.

So am I breast obsessed? Maybe or do I just enjoy the beauty of a more voluptuous woman's body and the pleasures of her having more up top can bring. I can get so much sexual enjoyment during breast play for myself and the lady I am with, I guess it partly satisfies my oral gratification need. As the years went on I had developed more and more techniques to bring women closer and closer to orgasm or even having an orgasm with just foreplay involving her breasts, maybe add the neck to that equation and a few other erogenous zones nearby.

I have also found that over the years the visual aspect of large breasts is more of a turn-on than the actual sex with the woman they are connected to. If a woman with big breasts doesn't know how to use them or does not enjoy what you can do with them then they are pretty much useless. I would much rather have a woman with a nice set who knows how to use them then a woman with really big ones who does not or just lays there like she's dead. Better yet give me a woman with average sized ones who know what to do with them during sex over a woman with really huge ones who does not. So I am saying the practical application means more than just the visual. I remember as a young man being with a woman who had the most awesome breasts but had sexual hang-ups and would not let me even suck on her nipples, wow was that a total disappointment, I was crushed. Her nipples stuck out like really long pencil erasers, her breasts were swollen with her arousal and her areola was slightly puffed to a tight hard silver dollar size, oh my I was ready to cum right then, what a waste. So the visual is first and if not applied to the sex it can be a huge let down, so much so that I for one would rather have a smaller breasted woman that is great in the sack over some large breasted one who just lays there. I think if I were truly obsessed with big boobs I would not feel that way at all, I wouldn't care, just give me the big ones and I'll do the rest.

So is the old saying more than a handful is a waste or more than a mouthful for that matter. I would say yes if the woman truly does not know that her breasts are and can be used as sexual organs. I can attest to the pleasures of a tit fuck or the visual appeal of a hose down. And I have learned they do not have to be that big to do either if the woman knows what to do with them.

I think in retrospect for me I just prefer a more voluptuous woman. The curves and protrudences of her breasts give her a more sexy feminine look. I like something to hold onto when I am having sex and do not enjoy bones digging into me and that is another issue. I believe that almost all women can be sexy if they know how to act and feel sexy, it's an attitude more then their looks. I also think that most foreplay is best when a lot of time is spent with a woman's breast is being involved. So since that aspect is what turns me on and the fact that when I do it to her, she is turned on that means I am not obsessed with her breasts it's just part of the package.

If a woman is facing forward before you can even see her face you can see her breasts, if she is facing rearward to you then it's her butt. So they are there for a reason, the bigger the breast the faster a man recognizes that indeed that person is a woman. He, as the aggressor has identified his prey and will fixate on her. I'm generalizing of course and maybe justifying my preference but I think there is something to what I am saying. It's not just BIG boobs, it's an appreciation of something that makes a woman what she is. It's all good as long as they work even somewhat. There are nerves all around her breast that lead to sexual arousal not only on the nipple or areola, but inside too. I must add that if I were married to a woman who had to have a mastectomy it would not change how I felt about her even sexually, love trumps great tits, always in my book.

So for me I don't think it's a fetish or I'm beast obsessed or BIG boob obsessed, I just think I'm a breast man period because they are the one thing that separates men from women until you have contact with the major physical different between the sexes and that is her vagina. Which makes me think that if I am a breast man I must also be a pussy man, wait, if I am also a pussy man then I must be a butt man too....oh fuck it I just love women's bodies period!!!!!!!

One afternoon a lawyer was riding in his
limousine when he saw two men along the road-
side eating grass.

Disturbed, he ordered his driver to stop
and he got out to investigate.

He asked one man, "Why are you eating
grass?""We don't have any money for food," the
poor man replied. "We have to eat grass."

"Well, then, you can come with me to my
house and I'll feed you," the lawyer said.

"But sir, I have a wife and two children with
me. They are over there, under that tree.."

"Bring them along," the lawyer replied.

Turning to the other poor man he stated,
"You come with us, also."

The second man, in a pitiful voice, then said, "But sir, I also have a wife and SIX children with me!"

"Bring them all, as well," the lawyer answered.

They all entered the car, which was no easy task, even for a car as large as the limousine was.


Once under way, one of the poor fellows turned
to the lawyer and said, "Sir, you are too kind."


"Thank you for taking all of us with you.

The lawyer replied, "Glad to do it.

"You'll really love my place. 


"The grass is almost a foot high"

For the guys who have not had a lot of experience with women, for the ones who have you should already know this.

NINE WORDS WOMEN USE

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7) Thanks: A wom an is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . that will bring on a 'whatever').

(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!

(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.